Last night
for the first time I found out what all the hype was about. That’s right I have
finally watched 500 Days of Summer. I’m not really one of them people that have
watched ten million films and watch them all the time. Hence my excuse for not
having seen it until now. I loved it. But it definitely has got me thinking.
Watching this, my best friend asked me if I thought love existed. Now I know
that I don’t come across as someone that is open about love and feelings and
have what has been described as a heart of stone. But I obviously think that
love exists. I really hope it does anyway.
Too many people are just looking for love. I think that people should Stop
Bloody Looking! When you are ready to love and be loved it will just happen. Be
that with someone you have meet for two minutes or someone you have known for
your life time. Or you could be sat in a deli, reading Dorian Gray and a guy
walks up and asks you about it. Everyone wants a spontaneous moment.
I feel that people are very quick to rush into wanting love and it isn’t there,
they are trying with someone that isn’t compatible with them. Or someone that
isn’t ready for love just yet. Why waste your time, if you think you’re in
love, surely it is forever and you don’t need to rush into anything.
I am not one of them people that are just looking for love. I want to be able
to have some good stories. I want to live. If I spent all my time trying to
find love I would have so many regrets, I wouldn’t be living my life to the
full. I would rather have the best time possible and find love at 80 years old
than be looking all my life than never find it. The more you look the less
likely you will be at finding it.
I am always the one that is telling this same best friend that she does not
need a man in her life to make her happy. Happiness comes from within you. You
don’t need love to make you happy.
So what if you haven’t got a boyfriend. There is so much more to life than lads and love. Leave life up to coincidence.
